I dont agree with you that Islam being Anti feminist.
definition of feminism: a collection of movements and ideologies aimed at defining, establishing, and defending equal political, economic, financial, and social rights for women
Islam does give equal rights to women:
Financial: the husband get more money (from inheritance) however he HAS to spend money on his wife (dowry) and family . (So, in the end, the wife has at least equal money to the husbands)
Economically: Women are allowed to get jobs, as long as it doesn't go against Islam,
Political: How many female Muslim prime ministers have there been?
Social: Women are given the same punishments men do. The can be witnesses i court, and they have the same value as a man, except in loans, because since the man are more knowledgeable in finance, since they pay fore everything, so they should get to have the right. ANd the reason for 4 MALE witnesses for adultery is to make the conviction of adulterers impossible, (how can people say that they saw the penetration, and have proof, and bring forth 4 virtuous, good male, muslim, witnesses who also saw the penetration, who also have proof. Impossible) Answering Christianity, Loonwatch, and muhaddith.org have proven this.
Women are given the right for divorce, same as men.
men and women have spiritual equality, a sin for a man in equally a sin for a women, and vice versa.
In verse 4:34 it say that IF the husband is caring and providing for the wife, THEN the wife must be nice (Obedient) to her husband
also it says that men CANNOT beat there wife (
http://www.answering-christianity.com/beating_no.htm ) or men beats there wife AFTER they warn them, THEN tell them (That they have ill-welled them) , and finally beat them (lightly, ibn abbas said with a TOOTHPICK, not on the face, that does not cause bruises, break bones, can't be with a rod, wire, etc. so virtually a mere push
source
http://www.answering-christianity.com/beating.htm) and women have the right to divorce the husband if he beat her.
Zaik Nakir (i disagree with him in some things but most things i think he is VERY trustworthy) compared men and women to 2 students with equal test scores, maybe in one criteria one got better than then the other but overall the are equal
Islam is completely feminist religion, it recognizes that men and women are different but gives them equality