As'salamu Alaikum dear brother,
The following Noble Verses give you your answer insha'Allah:
2:222 ويسألونك عن المحيض قل هو اذى فاعتزلوا النساء في المحيض ولاتقربوهن حتى يطهرن فاذا تطهرن فاتوهن من
حيث امركم الله ان الله يحب التوابين ويحب المتطهرين
[002:222] They ask thee concerning women's courses. Say: They are a hurt and a pollution: So keep away from women in their courses, and do not approach them until they are clean. But when they have purified themselves, ye may approach them in any manner, time, or place ordained for you by God حيث امركم الله. For God loves those who turn to Him constantly and He loves those who keep themselves pure and clean.2:223 نساؤكم حرث لكم فاتوا حرثكم
انى شئتم وقدموا لانفسكم واتقوا الله واعلموا انكم ملاقوه وبشر المؤمنين
[002:223] Your wives are as a tilth unto you; so approach your tilth when or how ye will انى شئتم; but do some good act for your souls beforehand; and fear God. And know that ye are to meet Him (in the Hereafter), and give (these) good tidings to those who believe.Allah Almighty made approaching women for sex conditional in both time and place. A man is forbidden from having sex with his woman if she's on her menstrual period. And a man is forbidden from having sex with his woman except where Allah Almighty permitted.
We need the Hadith & Science for this:This is where we need the Hadith to tell us how Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him, detailed it. The Prophet forbade anal sex. Oral sex I believe is not clear. But scientifically speaking, since back then they had no soaps, then you can imagine how oral sex can be very infectious and hurtful for the tongue and mouth. Anal sex, with its fecal filth and bacteria, is still infectious to the penis, tongue and mouth even after cleaning it with soap today. One American workmate told me once that his friend was infected badly from his girlfriend for licking his girlfriend from the anus, despite the fact that he cleaned it before the act.
He still got sick and infected.
The vagina and penis were made for each other. But the tongue and lips were not made to contact the vagina nor the anus or rectum. Also, the penis and anus were not made for each other. The anus is different from the vagina in the following points:
1- The vagina is self-lubricating to allow for tense sex and back and forth strokes by the penis. The anus does not have this.
2- The vagina is stretchable that even a baby can come out of it. The anus is not.
3- The vagina has a clitorous and a G-spot (about 2 inches inside the vagina), which allow for sensational feelings for the woman to occur during sex. The anus and rectum have none.
4- Anal sex weakens the anus' muscles that hold the feces from coming out on their own. One would eventually need to wear adult diapers during his/her young years if they regularly practice anal sex.
Therefore, science can certainly confirm the Truthfulness of the Hadith that commanded us to not practice anal sex with our women. Of course, anal sex on the man is haram (forbidden, sinful). And oral sex is also infectious.
And Allah Almighty always Knows best.
Other sexual restrictions:Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him, also said that you can not have sex with multiple women at the same time. So threesome and foursome are not allowed. He also said that one must always practice sex in secret and privacy with his woman. So a woman screaming during sex to let the neighbors know she's having sex, like they do in apartment buildings here in the USA and elsewhere, is not allowed in Islam. LOL, I've heard those myself in the past
. Many American and Western women like to act slutty, unfortunately.
Our mother in Islam, Aisha, was hit on her chest or shoulder by the Prophet for spying on him and one of his wives during the night. So this is definitely haram. Sex between the husband and wife, or a man and his woman (harem or concubine) is to be done discreetly and in secrete. It must not get broadcasted.
The following links give ample Islamic analysis on anal and oral sex:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Islamic_views_on_anal_sex
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Islamic_views_on_oral_sex
https://www.google.com/search?q=anal+sex+in+Islam
https://www.google.com/search?q=oral+sex+in+Islam
Take care,
Osama Abdallah
