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GENERAL TOPICS | BOARD ANNOUNCEMENTS / Re: Regarding Aisha age.
« on: January 20, 2016, 04:07:05 PM »
Asslam-o-Alaikum,
I have heard these or similar arguments presented numerous times. This arguments probably started from Maulana Muhammad Ali who in 1948 in a footnote of his book Living Thoughts of the Prophet Muhammad gave similar arguments.
As much as Muslims nowadays want to believe otherwise, the Muslim scholars who have much deeper understanding and knowledge of this issue are convinced that the lower age of Lady Aisha is the correct position.
A detailed rebuttal of all the usual points in this context had been performed here:
https://web.archive.org/web/20130831131153/http://qa.sunnipath.com/issue_view.asp?HD=7&ID=4604&CATE=1
I cannot personally comment on whether how reliable this rebuttal actually is, but these reasons are probably why learned Muslim scholars disregard the revisionist narrative.
Therefore, in my opinion it could end up being an embarrassment, if some Muslims try to use these to refute Islamophobia.
Reconciliation
If the above is assumed to be true, how can Muslims reconcile this issue? Unfortunately, it is much more complicated in the present context of ever-changing “moral ethics”. Nevertheless, I believe there is enough evidence to prove the morality of this act, only if a person is open minded enough to look beyond his subjective moral reasoning. Because it is pretty time consuming, Muslims trying to explain this are at a huge disadvantage.
The main problem is that virtually everyone assumes that psychological maturity is directly dependent on a person’s age. This is actually a myth. Individuals who had passed through puberty were sincerely considered as physically and psychosocially mature people in earlier times. There are several reasons that show this concept of theirs wasn’t incorrect.
Also,
A somewhat structured argument is present in the following source link.
Source: https://ahmadcheemacollections.wordpress.com/books/islamic/the-issue-of-marriage-between-muhammad-pbuh-aisha-ra/the-detailed-explanation/
The above link is kind of a summary of several discourses I have had with atheists on this subject.
The main source for my article is:
http://www.muhaddith.org/earlymarriage/EarlyMarriage-part1.html
http://www.muhaddith.org/earlymarriage/EarlyMarriage-part2.html
This is the best concise article I’ve ever read on this issue, supported by many references from objective sources.
Child Marriages still Allowed?
First of all, “Child Marriages” have never been allowed in Islam or at-least the consummation of these marriages. What Muslims have differed about is the definition of “Children”. Just two centuries ago, puberty in most cases was the defining point of physical and psychosocial maturity in most of the world. Because Muslim scholars are generally speaking mostly conservative people, they have been hesitant to change their views even in the face of mounting evidence that shows, contrary to earlier times, psychosocial maturity is delayed during today's times.
According to one author: because of the contemporary delay in maturity, marriage at puberty today would violate 6 basic Islamic rules:
1) “Rushd”, psychological maturity, or “prudent judgement” is required before marriage.
2) No one should harm anyone else.
3) People’s best interests must be observed.
4) No one should bear any burden beyond their capacity.
5) Governments and guardians are entrusted to act correctly.
6) Compliance to “urf”, new social norms that are considered good.”
Source: http://www.muhaddith.org/earlymarriage/EarlyMarriage-part1.html
For detailed explanation visit the links above.
Regards,
I have heard these or similar arguments presented numerous times. This arguments probably started from Maulana Muhammad Ali who in 1948 in a footnote of his book Living Thoughts of the Prophet Muhammad gave similar arguments.
As much as Muslims nowadays want to believe otherwise, the Muslim scholars who have much deeper understanding and knowledge of this issue are convinced that the lower age of Lady Aisha is the correct position.
A detailed rebuttal of all the usual points in this context had been performed here:
https://web.archive.org/web/20130831131153/http://qa.sunnipath.com/issue_view.asp?HD=7&ID=4604&CATE=1
I cannot personally comment on whether how reliable this rebuttal actually is, but these reasons are probably why learned Muslim scholars disregard the revisionist narrative.
Therefore, in my opinion it could end up being an embarrassment, if some Muslims try to use these to refute Islamophobia.
Reconciliation
If the above is assumed to be true, how can Muslims reconcile this issue? Unfortunately, it is much more complicated in the present context of ever-changing “moral ethics”. Nevertheless, I believe there is enough evidence to prove the morality of this act, only if a person is open minded enough to look beyond his subjective moral reasoning. Because it is pretty time consuming, Muslims trying to explain this are at a huge disadvantage.
The main problem is that virtually everyone assumes that psychological maturity is directly dependent on a person’s age. This is actually a myth. Individuals who had passed through puberty were sincerely considered as physically and psychosocially mature people in earlier times. There are several reasons that show this concept of theirs wasn’t incorrect.
Also,
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... consider a scenario in which some decades from now, 25 years becomes the age of majority (i.e. the age of psychological maturity), which in fact corresponds to an actual biological threshold unlike the 18 years concept. A couple of centuries from now, people will probably be debating that a 26 years old (or older) male, marrying an 18 year old female in today’s time constituted an example of paedophilia.
If they do, then we know it would be fallacious to do so, because to the best of our knowledge, and taking under consideration legal and maybe some other requirements, 18-year-olds are generally sincerely considered as adult individuals in today’s times.
A somewhat structured argument is present in the following source link.
Source: https://ahmadcheemacollections.wordpress.com/books/islamic/the-issue-of-marriage-between-muhammad-pbuh-aisha-ra/the-detailed-explanation/
The above link is kind of a summary of several discourses I have had with atheists on this subject.
The main source for my article is:
http://www.muhaddith.org/earlymarriage/EarlyMarriage-part1.html
http://www.muhaddith.org/earlymarriage/EarlyMarriage-part2.html
This is the best concise article I’ve ever read on this issue, supported by many references from objective sources.
Child Marriages still Allowed?
First of all, “Child Marriages” have never been allowed in Islam or at-least the consummation of these marriages. What Muslims have differed about is the definition of “Children”. Just two centuries ago, puberty in most cases was the defining point of physical and psychosocial maturity in most of the world. Because Muslim scholars are generally speaking mostly conservative people, they have been hesitant to change their views even in the face of mounting evidence that shows, contrary to earlier times, psychosocial maturity is delayed during today's times.
According to one author: because of the contemporary delay in maturity, marriage at puberty today would violate 6 basic Islamic rules:
1) “Rushd”, psychological maturity, or “prudent judgement” is required before marriage.
2) No one should harm anyone else.
3) People’s best interests must be observed.
4) No one should bear any burden beyond their capacity.
5) Governments and guardians are entrusted to act correctly.
6) Compliance to “urf”, new social norms that are considered good.”
Source: http://www.muhaddith.org/earlymarriage/EarlyMarriage-part1.html
For detailed explanation visit the links above.
Regards,